The things I agree with about her observations.
1. I have never renegotiated my pay increase with my boss. For some reason either I was scared or trusted that they were doing their best on my behalf.
2. I never went around the office self-promoting myself like my male peers. I just worked harder, was smarter and expected management to notice the effort and reward it accordingly. For whatever reason I was not crazy about women who always talked up themselves instead of their team. I still feel this way and am not sure if this has hurt me or helped me.
3. I have never asked anyone male or female to mentor me.
4. I took time out to re-evaluate my priorities when I had my son at 39 years old. I had opportunities to climb but choose not to jump on them as I was going to try have a family.
5. I had been working solidly for 22 years when I had my son and took the year off. I started my skincare company while on maternity leave with no regrets.
6. I have felt women to be way harder on each other than men ever are. I have felt we (the female species) are way more judgemental on each other then we are on men. I still feel this way.
7. There are few women that are successful that are likeable and I am not sure why that is??
I often struggle with this as I have a daughter now who is 3 and is a natural leader. I want her to be liked for her accomplishments not because of what she wears or how she looks. There are so few great role models for her and I truly believe that is something that needs to change for all women.
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